
Clinical Practice & Guidance
Tips and techniques from your colleaguesDoing What's Best for Mom and Dad
Helping Contentious Siblings Find Common CauseA parent's failing health can stir up a hornet's nest of trouble among adult siblings. Read more
After the Storm
The Affair In RetrospectAs therapists, we have an unquenchable desire to find happy ending for troubled clients, especially those weathering the crisis of infidelity. But what happens... Read more
The Mindful Swimmer
Staying Afloat in the Rough Seas of RelationshipMindfulness offers tools for navigating the stormy seas of a troubled relationship. Read more
Honoring the Mission
Don’t Be too Quick to Ease the Caregiver’s BurdenWithout the emphasis at the outset on identifying, honoring, and sustaining the caregiver's mission, you're unlikely to ever progress. Read more
Failure to Launch
The Struggle to Leave Home in the 21st CenturyThe difficulty young people have leaving home is producing confusion amongst parents and their children. Read more
The Stages of Trauma Recovery
Principles of Effective TreatmentMy intent in sharing my story was to help therapists understand the needs of a trauma victim and to suggest techniques and strategies to meet these needs at... Read more
Shame-O-Phobia
Why Men Fear TherapyShame is the least understood dimension of men's inner experience—by both men themselves and the people who live with them. This lack of understanding may be... Read more
Women Treating Men
Therapy across the Gender DivideGender shapes relationship from the very first moment therapist meets client, especially when the client is male and the therapist is female. Read more
Holding Your Ground with Narcissistic Clients
What to do when your hot buttons get pushedSome practical guidelines for handling confrontive and critical clients. Read more
Therapy in the Danger Zone
Breaking the Cycle of Family TraumaThere's no more emotionally demanding work than that with an incestuous family. A therapist offers an uncensored look at the fear, loathing, and fascination of... Read more
Take a Breath
Using Yoga to Create a Sense of Well-Being in Your OfficeA variety of easy-to-use yogic breathing techniques can add a new dimension to treatment with depressed and anxious clients. Read more
Addicted to Sex
There are no shortcuts in treating SAEffective work with sex addicts must address deep-seated attachment wounds. Commentary by Joe Kort. Read more
Heart of the Matter
Helping Couples Find Their Sexual ChemistryWhether they know it or not, what most people are looking for in sex therapy isn't so much a change in specific behaviors as a way of developing a more... Read more
EMDR helps a young Iraq War vet and his wife emerge from the nightmare of his war experience. Read more
Higher Ground
What Clinicians Should Know about the "Vertical Dimension"Modern therapy has given scant attention to morally elevated emotions like awe, gratitude, and admiration, resulting in a skewed picture of how people actually... Read more
Beyond Right and Wrong
Teaching Couples How To Embrace Fair-MindednessWhat do issues of fairness and relational justice have to do with psychotherapy? Read more
Learning Forgiveness
Peacemaking Skills For CouplesGiven that most couples never manage to change each other very much, teaching them to forgive each other's imperfections is a vastly underutilized therapeutic... Read more
Reversing Chronic Pain
Ten Steps to Reduce SufferingMore and more chronic pain patients are being referred to therapists after their physicians conclude that they show every appearance of being healed. Read more
Working with Alcoholics
AA as a Crucial Adjunct to TherapyTherapists need to get beyond the common misconception about Alcoholics Anonymous. Read more
In a memorable scene in Fiddler on the Roof, the main character, Tevye, pretends to have been awakened by a nightmare that he concocts to convince his wife to... Read more
The Tao of Improv
Embracing Life on the EdgeImprovisational theater offers a unique way of approaching relationships—and psychotherapy—that's generous rather than closed, support rather than... Read more
10 Best-Ever Anxiety-Management Techniques
There are Effective Alternatives to Medication“I don’t think I want to live if I have to go on feeling like this.” I hear this remark all too often from anxiety sufferers. They say it... Read more
Enlisting the ODD Child
How to move beyond the power struggleHelping kids with ODD begins with getting past the many myths surrounding the disorder. Read more
Fantasy in Couples Therapy
Is Encouraging Sexual Fantasies Playing with Fire?Many therapists assume that if they help couples improve their relationships, the improvement will naturally lead to a rewarding erotic life. But what if... Read more
The Healing Power of Play
Helping the traumatized child find safety againThe child therapist approaches the child who can't play by introducing play activities one step at the time. Read more
1. Ride the Rhythms of Rest Fine-tune your circadian rhythms with exposure to morning light. Regularly engage in rest breaks and practices. Consider daily... Read more
Receiving with Grace
Teaching Reluctant Seniors to Accept Help"Many of my older clients and their family caregivers resist accepting help from others. How can I get them to receive the care they need?" Read more
Using one's own anger may be the key to success with difficult teen clients. Commentary by Janet Sasson Edgette Read more
Practice Makes Perfect
There's No Shortcut to Lasting ChangeMany clients believe that the therapy process all by itself will magically improve their lives and relationships. We must help them recognize that without... Read more